They say a picture paints a thousand words, and the graphic I use in this devotional proves today’s scenario vividly. One mother shared that a wayward son has spewed his venom to his parents, affecting his siblings in heartbreaking ways. This turmoil not only disrupts the family but also creates ripples of pain that can last for years. Brothers and sisters are God-given first friends in a child’s life; it is a rare treasure that can support one another through life’s ups and downs. The friendship that is formed has a special bond: not only are they flesh and blood, but they are also brothers and sisters in Christ if they are saved, united in faith and love. This relationship has the potential to be a source of immense strength, as they go through the trials of life together, like losing a parent for example. They are able to uplift and encourage one another to stay true to their values and beliefs, ultimately drawing closer to God in the process. In times of distress, the support of siblings can be a reminder of God’s unwavering love, which demonstrates that even in difficult situations, the family can find comfort and healing because of their faith.
But what if one sibling chooses to cause pain and despair to his parents? What happens to his brothers and sisters? They will miss their wayward brother or sister deeply, mourning not just their physical presence but also the emotional connection that once bound them together. That close bond is now severed, leaving an aching void in the other siblings. Two sets of lives are now being lived: one devoted to the Lord, and the other aligning with the enemy. Not only does this affect the siblings physically, drawing them into a rift where family gatherings become strained and awkward, but it also impacts them emotionally. They find themselves caught in the middle of a tumultuous storm; and being Christians, they can see the enemy at work in their family, sowing discord and heartache. The struggle becomes a deep moral dilemma: do they choose to separate themselves from their wayward sibling, potentially alienating him further, or do they try to sit on the fence between their parents and sibling, torn between loyalty and righteousness? This conflict leads them to question their own beliefs and the nature of unconditional love, forcing them to face their relationships in ways they never anticipated, all while yearning for reconciliation and understanding.
Ephesians 4:31-32 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: (32) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
Furthermore, the parents must be very careful not to be bitter against their prodigal child, as this negativity will undoubtedly be obvious to their other children. They live in the house and clearly see it creating an atmosphere of tension and resentment within their family. Parents should understand that harboring bitterness can lead to undesirable consequences, where they unintentionally become the root of their other children’s bitterness and skepticism towards love and forgiveness. Instead, it is crucial for parents to show compassion, understanding, and unconditional love. They must show how God can support them during difficult times and offer peace in moments of despair. They should strive to be living examples of how faith can guide them through trials and heal the broken-hearted, showing their children that forgiveness is not merely an act but a journey that can lead to greater unity and strength in family relationships. This is what comes from “walking” the word of God rather than just talking about the word of God.
Praying for your prodigal child is a beautiful way to show your other children how God views them. Teach them the parable of the prodigal son found in Luke 15:11-32. The father’s response to his son returning home is absolutely beautiful. Praying with your children for the prodigal to come to repentance will help your children to heal. There’s nothing more healing than recognizing the root cause of your prodigal’s journey. Your fight is not with him but with the enemy.
Ephesians 6:10-13 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. (11) Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. (12) For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. (13) Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
There is no better teacher than life’s lessons and God’s Word! God uses the circumstances in our lives to teach us how to deal with them. Ephesians 6:10-13 reminds us that our battle is with the enemy. But the battle belongs to God! Remember that!
2 Corinthians 4:7-9 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us. ( 8 ) We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; (9) Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;
Stay strong in the Lord and do not allow your testimony for Christ to be harmed. Look at it this way, the devil is presenting you with an opportunity to prove your mettle, just as he did with Job. He thought he could cause Job to give up on God. Job’s faithfulness was tested beyond belief, as he faced immense losses and excruciating sorrow, yet he remained steadfast. Yes, he waivered for a moment when he wished he had never been born. The enemy wants you to cave in and say the Christian walk isn’t worth a broken family or the trials you are facing. Instead, Job realized that he was nothing without the Lord, understanding that true strength comes from faith and reliance on God. His faith was tested, and he was rewarded in the same way Abraham was rewarded when he was asked by God to sacrifice his only son, Isaac! What faith! This is not just about suffering; it is about the strength of our faith that can emerge when we lean on God’s everlasting promise. It reminds us that every trial can refine us and draw us closer to Him. Remember, your current struggles are not the end but a part of a greater story, one that can inspire and uplift others witnessing your journey along the way. The outcome of this journey will be a testimony, not only to your children, but to those who have been praying for you. Help your children to work through this pain and trial but giving them Scriptures that will bring them comfort. Teach them how to pray for their wayward sibling and to forgive him. Forgiveness releases that pain into the hands of the Father, who forgives us!
I am learning to realize that I am being blessed of God to walk this trial along with you mothers who share similar experiences and challenges. This trial is meant to help me to take my trust for the Lord to another level, deepening my relationship with Him and enabling me to understand His purpose in my life. In my prayers, I ask the Lord to help me to realize His will for my life each day. Each trial in my walk with Him has led me to this moment of spiritual growth. God’s faithfulness to me has become my foundation of trust, and an anchor that is fixed in tumultuous storms. It reminds me that I am never alone in my struggles. As I walk through this journey, I find strength and comfort!
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; (4) Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.







