1 Cor. 15:52 In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
Whether your child has been gone for years or you are new to this pain, please know that your heart will heal over time. It is a journey that takes patience and strength. Your prodigal may remain a prodigal for years, and during this time, it is natural to feel despair but know it will turn to hope. Your pain will ease just as mine did, allowing you to find peace amidst the chaos. Now I can look at my situation with different eyes, understanding that healing unfolds a layer at a time, some of which are difficult but necessary for growth. I know that the enemy’s devices are strong; he sows doubt and fear in our hearts, but my God is stronger and offers love and refuge in our moments of need. The Lord may not bring your child home for a while, but there is a reason behind the waiting—a divine purpose that may one day bring understanding and reconciliation. Trust in this process and allow your heart to be open to possibilities you may not yet see. Trust in His Word:
(Psalm 147:3) He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.
(Psalm 34:18) The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.
(Jeremiah 17:14) Heal me, O LORD, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved: for thou art my praise.
(Matthew 11:28) Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
I can’t help but think of Joseph’s life when his brothers did him wrong. His brothers, driven by jealousy and resentment, betrayed him in ways that were unimaginable, selling him into slavery and leaving him to wonder about their true intentions. Yet, despite their betrayal and the hardships he faced, Joseph’s response was spot on! It’s apparent that he chose forgiveness over bitterness. Instead of allowing his past to define him, he rose to significant positions of power while maintaining integrity, ultimately proving that adversity can be transformed into strength and opportunity. This could be your Joseph moment!
(Genesis 50:20) But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.
Also, I think of Queen Esther. She was a remarkable figure who was placed in her position for a purpose not known to her at the time. She lived in a foreign land and faced immense challenges, yet her courage and resilience shined. Because of her obedience to Mordecai, God used her in a profound way. Her bravery in approaching the king, risking her own life to save her people, illustrates the importance of faith and divine providence in our lives. Esther’s journey serves as a powerful reminder that sometimes we are called to fulfill a greater purpose, even when we do not fully understand the reasons behind it. This could be your Esther moment!
(Esther 4:14) For if thou altogether holdest thy peace at this time, then shall there enlargement and deliverance arise to the Jews from another place; but thou and thy father’s house shall be destroyed: and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this?
As you are living in your pain, ask the Lord:
I want to be a Joseph, Lord. What would You have me do with this pain in order to glorify Your Name? Impress upon my heart Your will in this situation.
I want to be used as You used Esther. What is my “for such a time as this”? Teach me, Lord, so I can help others.
For me, it was writing about mothers with broken hearts. It helped me to heal and allowed me to share with other women who are going through the same thing. I pray that you have found some comfort the past couple of weeks!! If yes, glory be to God!
They say a picture paints a thousand words, and the graphic I use in this devotional proves today’s scenario vividly. One mother shared that a wayward son has spewed his venom to his parents, affecting his siblings in heartbreaking ways. This turmoil not only disrupts the family but also creates ripples of pain that can last for years. Brothers and sisters are God-given first friends in a child’s life; it is a rare treasure that can support one another through life’s ups and downs. The friendship that is formed has a special bond: not only are they flesh and blood, but they are also brothers and sisters in Christ if they are saved, united in faith and love. This relationship has the potential to be a source of immense strength, as they go through the trials of life together, like losing a parent for example. They are able to uplift and encourage one another to stay true to their values and beliefs, ultimately drawing closer to God in the process. In times of distress, the support of siblings can be a reminder of God’s unwavering love, which demonstrates that even in difficult situations, the family can find comfort and healing because of their faith.
But what if one sibling chooses to cause pain and despair to his parents? What happens to his brothers and sisters? They will miss their wayward brother or sister deeply, mourning not just their physical presence but also the emotional connection that once bound them together. That close bond is now severed, leaving an aching void in the other siblings. Two sets of lives are now being lived: one devoted to the Lord, and the other aligning with the enemy. Not only does this affect the siblings physically, drawing them into a rift where family gatherings become strained and awkward, but it also impacts them emotionally. They find themselves caught in the middle of a tumultuous storm; and being Christians, they can see the enemy at work in their family, sowing discord and heartache. The struggle becomes a deep moral dilemma: do they choose to separate themselves from their wayward sibling, potentially alienating him further, or do they try to sit on the fence between their parents and sibling, torn between loyalty and righteousness? This conflict leads them to question their own beliefs and the nature of unconditional love, forcing them to face their relationships in ways they never anticipated, all while yearning for reconciliation and understanding.
Ephesians 4:31-32 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: (32) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
Furthermore, the parents must be very careful not to be bitter against their prodigal child, as this negativity will undoubtedly be obvious to their other children. They live in the house and clearly see it creating an atmosphere of tension and resentment within their family. Parents should understand that harboring bitterness can lead to undesirable consequences, where they unintentionally become the root of their other children’s bitterness and skepticism towards love and forgiveness. Instead, it is crucial for parents to show compassion, understanding, and unconditional love. They must show how God can support them during difficult times and offer peace in moments of despair. They should strive to be living examples of how faith can guide them through trials and heal the broken-hearted, showing their children that forgiveness is not merely an act but a journey that can lead to greater unity and strength in family relationships. This is what comes from “walking” the word of God rather than just talking about the word of God.
Praying for your prodigal child is a beautiful way to show your other children how God views them. Teach them the parable of the prodigal son found in Luke 15:11-32. The father’s response to his son returning home is absolutely beautiful. Praying with your children for the prodigal to come to repentance will help your children to heal. There’s nothing more healing than recognizing the root cause of your prodigal’s journey. Your fight is not with him but with the enemy.
Ephesians 6:10-13 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might. (11) Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. (12) For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. (13) Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
There is no better teacher than life’s lessons and God’s Word! God uses the circumstances in our lives to teach us how to deal with them. Ephesians 6:10-13 reminds us that our battle is with the enemy. But the battle belongs to God! Remember that!
2 Corinthians 4:7-9 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us. ( 8 ) We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair; (9) Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;
Stay strong in the Lord and do not allow your testimony for Christ to be harmed. Look at it this way, the devil is presenting you with an opportunity to prove your mettle, just as he did with Job. He thought he could cause Job to give up on God. Job’s faithfulness was tested beyond belief, as he faced immense losses and excruciating sorrow, yet he remained steadfast. Yes, he waivered for a moment when he wished he had never been born. The enemy wants you to cave in and say the Christian walk isn’t worth a broken family or the trials you are facing. Instead, Job realized that he was nothing without the Lord, understanding that true strength comes from faith and reliance on God. His faith was tested, and he was rewarded in the same way Abraham was rewarded when he was asked by God to sacrifice his only son, Isaac! What faith! This is not just about suffering; it is about the strength of our faith that can emerge when we lean on God’s everlasting promise. It reminds us that every trial can refine us and draw us closer to Him. Remember, your current struggles are not the end but a part of a greater story, one that can inspire and uplift others witnessing your journey along the way. The outcome of this journey will be a testimony, not only to your children, but to those who have been praying for you. Help your children to work through this pain and trial but giving them Scriptures that will bring them comfort. Teach them how to pray for their wayward sibling and to forgive him. Forgiveness releases that pain into the hands of the Father, who forgives us!
I am learning to realize that I am being blessed of God to walk this trial along with you mothers who share similar experiences and challenges. This trial is meant to help me to take my trust for the Lord to another level, deepening my relationship with Him and enabling me to understand His purpose in my life. In my prayers, I ask the Lord to help me to realize His will for my life each day. Each trial in my walk with Him has led me to this moment of spiritual growth. God’s faithfulness to me has become my foundation of trust, and an anchor that is fixed in tumultuous storms. It reminds me that I am never alone in my struggles. As I walk through this journey, I find strength and comfort!
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; (4) Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.
In my grief for my own wayward son, the Lord spoke to my heart. He spoke to me through a recent message that I heard where the Pastor pointed out that we should be telling the world what we are learning, and not what we have learned. I definitely learned a lot in the past eighteen months as I grieved the loss of my prodigal son. However, I stopped there! I didn’t realize that I could continue learning how to deal with this until the Lord impressed upon me to write this devotional series! There are definitely many different facets of this ever-changing “diamond in the rough”! Each situation that the mothers shared with me gave me another view from life’s “pie.” In your mind’s eye, if you place an entire pie on the table and cut it up into equal shares, you will understand what I mean. Now stand in front of the first piece and look across the room and do this for every piece of pie. The view you see will be slightly different than the previous view. Everyone looks at their prodigal trial with blinders on. That’s not wrong, but there are quite a few different views being experienced by countless mothers out there. Each perspective adds depth to the experience, allowing us to gather insights that may have otherwise escaped our notice. When you lean in and listen to one another’s stories, you begin to see how universal themes of love, pain, and hope intertwine in the lives of these mothers. The emotions run deep, and through this shared journey, bonds are formed as hearts connect in ways that words often cannot fully express. I pray that this series will speak to the heart of at least one mother, offering encouragement and reassurance that they are not alone in this challenging chapter of their lives.
I reached out to mothers on an online group that I’m a part of and asked them to share their ideas on this very topic. I never realized how many different scenarios there are for our wayward children. Today’s will be about mothers that have children who have gone the way of the world into deep sin and now will not communicate because they know the parents disagree. They also take it a step further and create lies that fit the scenario in order to justify their position. This can cover a number of sins from homosexuality to drug addiction. But according to James 2:10, sin is sin and all of it is a putrid smell to the Lord. That is why He sent His Son to die for those sins. The poor mother who has to live through this type of scenario! How many tears have been shed? Countless, I’m sure. She wonders what she did wrong to have her child turn out this way. The Lord knows each and every tear you have shed, dear mother!
Psalm 69:3 I am weary of my crying: my throat is dried: mine eyes fail while I wait for my God.
Psalm 56:8 Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?
Oh, how I cry out Psalm 69:3 as I continue to walk through my trial!! Let’s face it ladies, the Lord has recorded many of our tears! He knows exactly what we are walking through, each moment of pain and heartache meticulously noted in His loving memory. In times of difficulty, when our spirits feel weary and our hearts burdened, it’s comforting to remember that we are not alone in our struggles. God sees our struggles and understands the depth of our sorrow, assuring us that every tear we shed holds significance in His eyes. As we travel along these challenging paths, may we find solace in the knowledge that our Savior walks beside us, bringing healing and hope even in the midst of the storms of life.
I believe the prodigal children who don’t speak to you because they know you will disagree with their sin know deep down that they are sinning. They are often aware of the moral implications of their choices, even if they choose to ignore them in favor of immediate gratification or temporary relief. They do not want to be held accountable according to Scripture, nor do they want to be reminded that they are sinning, as this would require them to confront the uncomfortable truths about their actions and reconsider their paths. This inner conflict can lead to avoidance and denial. They are accountable for their own sins, and they will be dealt with by the Holy Spirit in the same manner we were dealt with when we came to the realization that we needed salvation. The process that leads to salvation can often involve moments of discomfort and reflection that challenge our current beliefs and actions. It is through this Holy Spirit guidance that they may find their way back, leading to healing and restoration, not just for themselves but also for those they have distanced themselves from.
As for the lies that have been spread against the parents, it has been my experience that there is nothing that you can do to stop them. Each one that has heard those lies will either not believe them or will believe the wayward child. Trying to intercede and correct the lies will fall on deaf ears or create further problems. It is best to leave it to the Lord and wait for Him to open the door. You can then deal with the lies as they are personally brought to your attention. It’s God’s timing that is of the utmost importance. When we meddle in His business, we may be hindering the work of the Holy Spirit. Instead, trust God’s Word when He says:
Psalm 31:18-19 Let the lying lips be put to silence; which speak grievous things proudly and contemptuously against the righteous. (19) Oh how great is thy goodness, which thou hast laid up for them that fear thee; which thou hast wrought for them that trust in thee before the sons of men!
This prodigal child will have quite the testimony when he finally comes to Christ, and it will be a powerful story of redemption that inspires others. The faithful praying mother, who has poured her heart and soul into interceding on behalf of her child, will have her prayers answered one day in a way that brings her immense joy and peace. We can hold tightly to the promises found in Proverbs 22:6, which assure us that the seeds we have sown in faith will bear fruit in due time. Together, as a family, we did our best to teach our children the ways of the Lord, instilling in them values rooted in faith and love. I truly believe that God, in His infinite wisdom and grace, will honor our efforts by giving our children ample opportunities to be saved and restored, guiding them gently back to His open arms where they will feel His unconditional love and forgiveness!
Don’t give up! Keep praying! It may not happen tomorrow or next year, but it will happen. I have heard from mothers who have waited years, and the healing is starting to happen!
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Rejoice evermore. (17) Pray without ceasing. (18) In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
The Apostle Paul encourages us to rejoice evermore, pray without ceasing and give thanks for everything. Wow Paul, you don’t ask for much, do you?! Do you notice that the rejoicing occurs before the praying and giving thanks? How can we possibly do that? We can do that by rejoicing at our salvation and the Great God who provided that salvation! What more do we need? The same God who supplies salvation and keeps it without failing, can restore your family. How? By praying and giving thanks in everything! I understand how we can pray, Paul, but how do we give thanks for this trial? It is through this trial that you and I will learn to trust God more deeply. Hasn’t each trial you’ve been through turned out for the glory of God? It is through this same trial that we find ourselves scootching in closer to His side than ever before, thus receiving that comfort we so need! As we live life’s ups and downs in our challenges, we realize that they lead us to a greater understanding of God’s unwavering love and support. He’s the same yesterday, today and tomorrow; therefore, He never changes in His love and support. (Hebrews 13:8) We may begin to see that there are lessons hidden in our struggles, shaping our character and bringing us greater resilience. Therefore, we give thanks in everything, even when the circumstances seem bleak, because we know that it will be according to His will. His faithfulness can be depended on so there’s no need to fear! That’s a LOT to be thankful for, isn’t it? Even during the darkest moments, His light shines through someone He has sent to encourage you; you know, that “Jesus with skin on,” to remind us that God is watching! There are so many things God does to remind us that we are never alone on this journey, and that His plans for us are always for our good and especially for His glory.
1 Corinthians 10:31 Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.
Today’s topic is on mothers whose husbands are not saved and want nothing to do with God. This is such a hard topic because no one knows what these dear mothers go through unless they are in the same boat. Many of these mothers were saved after they got married, so it’s not because they disobeyed God and married an unsaved man. This marriage is a daily battle between good and evil, and God’s spiritual armor is working overtime! This dear mother sees her home through spiritual lenses, trying to navigate these challenges with a heart full of faith and hope. She has godly glasses on and sees clearly what is going on in her home, often recognizing the subtle influences that seek to draw her children away from the truth. A good example is when Dad drinks alcohol in front of his children or he gambles his paycheck away. Mom is running interference as she battles for the souls of her children which can only be done with prayer, seeking wisdom in her decisions. Dad’s actions say one thing while her teachings say another. This creates a difficult gap that requires her to be both a loving mother and a steadfast guardian of her children’s faith. The tears she sheds are many, especially when she sees her child follow in Dad’s footsteps. She feels the weight of the spiritual responsibility resting upon her shoulders. In moments of doubt, she clings to the promise that God is with her in these trials, giving her strength to continue her important work, knowing that her unwavering love and perseverance can make a lasting impact on her family’s spiritual journey.
Psalm 6:6 I am weary with my groaning; all the night make I my bed to swim; I water my couch with my tears.
This dear mother may sometimes get so weary in this battle that she wonders if God is even present as the problems continue to exist day after day, each one seemingly more discouraging than the last. She feels all alone in her fight against the enemy and believe me it is a fight! When these battles are not given to the Lord daily, the weight of her struggles will often grow heavier with time, leaving her feeling isolated and overwhelmed. She may also wonder if God even loves her, questioning her worth in moments of deep despair. These battles are real, and the enemy doesn’t play fair. He will keep at it until Mom caves in to the pressure. Couples should be going through life’s challenges together, supporting each other through thick and thin, but this woman is alone in this particular spiritual battle, wrestling with doubt and fear in the silence of her heart. Furthermore, she can’t even turn to her husband to discuss the matter because he will look at her like she has two heads! My heart cries out for these mothers who face such trials. Every day presents a different challenge: the endless responsibilities, the unyielding pressures, and the emotional toll that can leave her feeling depleted. What would she do without the Lord guiding her steps and providing strength in her weakness? God does love you, dear mother, and He is ever present, even when you don’t feel that He is; He walks with you in the shadows and shines His light on the path ahead, reminding you that you are never truly alone in your fight.
Jeremiah 31:3 The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.
Psalm 46:1 To the chief Musician for the sons of Korah, A Song upon Alamoth. God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
This same God who loves you and is an ever-present help in times of trouble is also deeply involved in your prodigals’ lives! You cannot be so overwhelmed with the path your children are headed down that you miss the profound truth of His unwavering presence and guidance. These are the very traits of God—His love, patience, and grace—that will be at work in your children, slowly but surely drawing them back to Him. Remember, no matter how far they stray, His hand is never too short to reach them. His reach goes down to the deepest depths. He knows them since the moment He knit them in your womb, dear mother. HE has covered them since that moment, so He won’t abandon them.
Psalm 139:7-13 Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? ( 8 ) If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. (9) If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; (10) Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me. (11) If I say, Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about me. (12) Yea, the darkness hideth not from thee; but the night shineth as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to thee. (13) For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother’s womb.
Husbands who have neglected their family’s spiritual growth will indeed be held accountable by God. For you, dear mother, be encouraged because the Lord joys over you with singing because of your faithfulness and unwavering prayers. Your steadfast love and commitment to your children do not go unnoticed; they are part of that tapestry I speak of that God is weaving in their lives, creating a beautiful story of redemption and hope that you will one day marvel at. In moments of doubt or struggle, remember that your role is vital, and the prayers you utter sound loudly in the heavenly realms. God hears them.
Zephaniah 3:17 The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing.
Will you make mistakes? Yes! Will you feel like you’re alone? Yes! But what you “feel” is not the end of it all; it is simply a part of your journey. God is faithful, and His Spirit will work in your wayward children, just as He did in your own life, guiding them back with love and compassion. You cannot bear this burden alone, nor were you meant to; the strength to persevere comes from trusting in Him. This cross that God has called you to bear is one that He helps you to carry, reminding you that His presence is always with you. He wants you to help others who carry the same cross, dear mother, for there is strength in community and healing in your experiences. He will never allow your burden to become so great that it is unbearable, even when it feels overwhelming and the weight seems too heavy to lift. In fact, God Himself promises that He will give you rest, replenishing your weary spirit and rejuvenating your heart, so you can continue to walk this difficult path with grace and resilience. Embrace His support, lean into Him, and remember that you are never truly alone in this journey.
Matthew 11:28-30 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, andI will give you rest. (29) Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. (30) For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
A two-fold home sometimes produces wayward children, but not all of them. I have seen women who have literally raised her children all by herself while her unsaved husband was away serving his Country. Her children turned out to be great men and women of God. For whatever reason, she was not called to carry this cross. But that is not the case in today’s scenario. Each household is different. Each mother is a different creation of God, and she is given a unique task that only she can handle. Use this to honor and glorify your Heavenly Father! Like Job, you will come forth as gold.
Job 23:10 But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold.
Today, let’s discuss mothers who stand in the gap in their homes. Just what does that mean? It’s a reference to mothers who are born again but their husbands are either not saved or they have chosen the way of the world for a time. The picture I used for today’s devotional is a poignant depiction of the mother’s role in a situation like this. She is constantly mending what has been spiritually broken in the home, sewing together the threads of faith and love that can sometimes fray when Dad is not involved. In her unwavering commitment, she not only embraces the nurturing aspects of motherhood but also takes on the essential responsibility of providing spiritual guidance, actively representing both roles of mother and the spiritual father. When Dad is not representing the Lord in the home, someone has to teach the children about love, compassion, and the values that ground them. Someone has to stand in the gap, which resorts to Mom; her prayers become the shield over her family, her teachings shine a light on the path for her children, nurturing them in the ways of righteousness while she remains a beacon of hope and strength. In doing so, she cultivates an environment where faith can flourish, encouraging her children to develop their own relationship with God, ensuring that the legacy of faith continues to thrive within their hearts. As good as this sounds, it is overwhelming for mothers to carry that burden alone.
Fathers are so important! Children need the firm foundation that Dad builds for the home, which he is to build on Christ. This foundation is crucial because it shapes the values and beliefs of the children as they grow. When Dad is an active participant, he fosters a sense of security and direction, instilling biblical principles that guide their lives. However, when Dad is not involved in this essential role, that foundation becomes the responsibility of the mother, a burden that she may not be prepared to carry fully. Leading the family spiritually is not in her wheelhouse; it is not a task that God has assigned to her. Her husband is meant to lead the home as he is led by Christ, taking responsibility for nurturing the family’s spiritual growth together. The mother plays a crucial role in enforcing and teaching the children according to the father’s leading, which supplements the instruction with her own insights. Yet, when the father is guiding the family in the ways of the world, prioritizing the world’s standards over biblical teachings, the children are caught in the crosshairs of conflicting morals and values. They find themselves fed two different sets of morals and, as they navigate their young lives, they quickly begin to see compromises and contradictions that can lead to confusion and disconnect in their understanding of right and wrong. This two-headed coin can create a tumultuous environment where the children struggle to establish their own identities in Christ, often leading them away from the strong spiritual foundation that is intended to guide them.
1 Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
A mother struggles when she is left to the spiritual upbringing of her children. On top of everything else she has to do to keep her home going, this can be an overwhelming burden. It sometimes becomes more a burden than a joy to teach her children about the Lord. Her children hear one thing, but Dad does the opposite. How does a mother navigate around that with her children without dishonoring their father in their eyes? It’s a battle, that’s for sure. She has to stay fortified with the armor of God in order to fight the darts of the enemy. His attacks are never fair. Just as a lion doesn’t think of fairness when he is looking for prey, neither is Satan fair. He catches you at your weakest moments. (1 Peter 5:8) She clings to the hope that as the Lord allows these trials and challenges in her life, she will honor Him through it all.
Job 23:10 But he knoweth the way that I take: when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold.
Then there are those mothers and fathers who have done what the Lord has taught them to do in leading their children in the ways of the Lord. The children have been raised in church and taught biblical standards to take with them into adulthood. However, every child is different and not everyone will continue in that teaching. Some are pliable and easily taught, while others are hard-willed and resistant to guidance. The complexities of adolescence can amplify these differences, often leading to conflicts and misunderstandings. Some get to the point that they discard what they’ve been taught and go to the ways of the world instead; they may seek acceptance in peer groups that do not share their foundational beliefs. This departure from cherished teachings and values can be painful not only for the parents but also for the children, creating a gap that seems insurmountable. Their decision has led to defiance filled with bitterness, which often manifests as resentment toward their upbringing and parents. Now that they are out of the home, Mom can no longer mend the torn tapestry she so desperately tried to sew for her family, feeling helpless as she watches her children navigate through life without the principles she held dear. Because she was the parent that was with the children the most during their formative years, she is looked upon with contempt and has become the “bad guy” in her prodigal’s life, grappling with the painful label of “failure” while yearning for reconciliation and understanding. In her heart, she carries the weight of unfulfilled hopes for her children, wishing they could return to the warmth of their shared values and familial love. She feels as though she overlooked the needs of her prodigal child and “missed something.” The enemy uses this situation to attack her while she’s down. Praise the Lord, however, that she has the Word of God and His Holy Spirit to encourage and comfort her.
Isaiah 40:31 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Dear mother, you are not alone. So many mothers are going through something similar. God will use it to give to you beauty for ashes, oil of joy for mourning, and a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness! He loves you and doesn’t want you wallowing in deep sorrow. Be encouraged and move forward. Don’t let one child’s wayward path be the prominent chapter of your book. You may have other children who are being faithful, so let them be the prominent chapters of your book!
Isaiah 61:3 To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified.
Psalm 34:18-19 The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. (19) Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.
We long for the day when he reaches out to restore fellowship. Then he might reflect on our efforts with a sense of appreciation rather than resentment. We can’t pinpoint one specific thing that we did wrong as he made it a point to list a plethora of our faults. We know some parents whose children turned to drugs, got in trouble with police, some have rap sheets that are quite long. While other parents have no idea what they did wrong, but you could probably find the root of the problem lying with worldly friends.
Children have a built-in desire for friends, as we all do. Their need for companionship is often rooted in the innate human longing for connection and understanding. That is how God created us. That is why He created Eve because God said it was not good that the man should be alone. (Genesis 2:18) The importance of good, equally yoked friendships cannot be stressed enough; these relationships provide a foundation for social skills, emotional support, and personal growth in the Lord. Friends can make or break your child if parents aren’t present in their social life. I raised my children in church but that doesn’t guarantee their immunity from bad choices in friendships. Unfortunately, the ones that my sons gravitated towards were not good for them. To top it off, they were the pastor’s grandchildren. We couldn’t very well forbid our sons from hanging out with them when they were attending the church’s private school. I regret the choice we made by having our sons attend there, but that is a mess that cannot be cleaned up. I won’t be able to tell this side of Heaven the extent of the damage this did to them. But what I do know is that my prodigal son holds deep-seeded resentment for this very thing. Not only was he bullied and made fun of, but he also claims things that cannot be shared here without dishonoring the man of God.
Our son prodigal will not have an open dialogue with us whatsoever. He has removed himself from any kind of contact with us. If only he could understand that we sent our children to private Christian schools in order to protect them from the evils of this world. We did not do it to keep them from what is called socialization today. We did it to protect them spiritually. Alas, the end result was that very thing we feared would happen! He caved in when it came to peer pressure, succumbing to the allure of a lifestyle that seemed far more exhilarating than the one he knew. He saw life outside the church as tempting and intriguing, filled with vibrant colors and moments of freedom that beckoned to him. It didn’t take long before the enemy and his world had their way with him, leading him down a path of choices that often felt greater than our teachings. Our other son, the alpha male, took the bull by the horns and created havoc in our home; his defiance echoed through our walls, challenging our authority and testing our patience.
The Book of Proverbs is filled with verses dealing with the fool, providing a stark reminder of the consequences of folly and the choices that lead one astray. As parents, we tried so hard to keep them from the world, shielding them with our beliefs, but we ultimately failed to teach them how the world really was, its complexities, and its challenges, leaving them unprepared for what awaited outside our doors. As I look back on the lack of my parenting skills in this area, it is with much regret, knowing that we could have better equipped them for life’s journey. Although they both have turned out to be wonderful men, each forging their own paths, just not men in love with God, which weighs heavily on my heart as I reflect on the decisions we made during their formative years.
I’ve said this several times so far in this series that we were not perfect parents, and I realize now that our journey has been filled with both triumphs and challenges. However, we did the best we could with what we gleaned from the Scriptures, the messages delivered in church, and the guidance we received from counseling. Our intentions were genuinely pure, rooted in love and a desire to guide our children toward a fulfilling life. Nevertheless, our prodigal son does not see it that way, and it pains us to acknowledge that he feels neglected and angry. The gap between our intentions and his perception has been difficult to bridge, especially since he no longer wishes to see us or speak to us.
Isaiah 40:29 He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength.
Dear mother, don’t be discouraged! The same God who watches over us, watches over our prodigals, never taking His gaze away from them even in their wandering. His eye is on the sparrow, let alone one of His creation, created in His image, for each of us holds a unique place in His heart. We are promised that all things will work together for good, reminding us that even in the midst of trials and uncertainty, there is a divine purpose at play, weaving together the tapestry of our lives in ways we might not yet understand. I use the word tapestry a lot because that’s exactly what I see my life as. If I look at the underside of a finished tapestry, I see knots and scrambled threads. However, the finished side is the way the Lord sees His work. We won’t know until we reach Heaven just how beautiful our life’s tapestry will be. So trust in the journey that the Lord lovingly placed you in, for His love is unwavering, and in times of hardship, we can find comfort in the knowledge that He is always at work behind the scenes, turning our pain into purpose and our struggles into strength.
Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
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Bitterness … it is one of the hardest emotions to overcome, often festering quietly within our hearts until it manifests in destructive ways. We see it rear its ugly head in the form of demonstrations all around the world, where anger and resentment boil over into public displays of discontent. Unfortunately, those who hang around bitter people become bitter themselves, as the pervasive nature of negativity can seep into one’s own outlook on life and relationships. You are who you hang around with, as the saying goes, highlighting the profound impact that our social circles have on our emotional well-being. But the Bible was the originator of that saying, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with godly influences. When you put two people together, one will influence the other, for better or worse; thus, it’s crucial to choose companions who uplift rather than drag us down. Only by breaking free from the chains of bitterness can we find true joy and fulfillment in our lives.
Proverbs 13:20 He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
1 Corinthians 15:33 Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Isaiah 40:28 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding.
Grace and kindness are forgiving while bitterness seeks to hurt. It nestles itself in the deepest part of the heart, infecting it with venom that spreads through thoughts and actions, clouding the mind and darkening the spirit. The only anti-venom is salvation and the work of the Holy Spirit in one’s life. He restores peace, helping to heal wounds that bitterness has caused, providing a gentle reminder that love can triumph over resentment and that healing begins with forgiveness. However, could it be that it isn’t your prodigal who is bitter but you, harboring unrecognized resentment and anger? Beware! This internal bitterness can lead to a vicious cycle, affecting your relationships and robbing you of joy, making it essential to break free from its grasp. It is crucial to examine your heart and seek true forgiveness, not just for others, but for yourself as well. It’s a journey that involves deep introspection and the courage to confront uncomfortable truths. If it is your prodigal who harbors bitterness, know where it comes from because we are dealing with the enemy.
Ephesians 4:30-32 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. (31) Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: (32) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Most of our prodigals claimed salvation, some at a very early age, much like my own prodigal son, who once displayed his faith and a budding relationship with God. But once he got out on his own, he abandoned the godly principles he was raised on, choosing instead a path that strayed far from his upbringing. Did salvation truly take root in his heart? The evidence suggests otherwise, as his spiritual fruit does not bear witness to a life transformed by grace. Instead, he bears the fruit of the father of this world, the father of lies, enriching his life with deceit and a disregard for the values, reflecting a stark contrast to the teachings that were instilled in him during his formative years.
John 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.
The enemy would love nothing more than to destroy your family altogether, targeting not just the physical bonds but also the emotional and spiritual connections that hold you together. This is why we as mothers of prodigals must stand firmly in the gap and be intercessors for our loved ones who have strayed. We must pray fervently, just as Elijah did when he implored God to defeat Baal and restore the people to the truth. The devil takes on many deceptive forms; sometimes, he appears even as an angel of light, masking his true intentions, while other times his intentions are not masked but quite obvious. Don’t be surprised if your prodigal is led astray in search of fulfillment, trying to find peace through religious cults that promise solace but deliver only confusion and heartache. The enemy is a master of lies and a great deceiver, of this there is no doubt! It is essential that we remain vigilant, steadfast in our prayers, and unwavering in our faith, knowing that God is greater than any obstacle or deception the enemy puts forth.
2 Corinthians 11:13-15 For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. (14) And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. (15) Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.
Be encouraged, mothers! God is at work and His Spirit is working in your prodigal’s life just as He did in yours prior to your salvation. God’s Word promises not to go out void into nothingness. God will accomplish His will!
Isaiah 55:11 So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.
Have you ever heard of living grief? Living grief is when a child who has broken all communication with his parents, leaving behind not just silence but an entire “gulf” of unspoken words and unresolved feelings. The parents mourn their loss deeply, continuously, knowing there is no light at the end of that tunnel. I totally get that! It is worse than grieving over someone who is dead, for with death there is a marked end, a chance for closure that living grief denies. How can I say something that appears thoughtless? You see, reader, death comes with its own finality, a period at the end of a painful sentence. One no longer wonders if the child will come home at the end of the day or if a simple phone call might bring relief to an aching and broken heart. Living grief is open ended, filled with endless questions and a haunting sense of uncertainty. There is no finality, no peace to be found, as each day can either bring hope or despair. Furthermore, if no communication goes on for years, it remains like a cloud hanging ominously overhead, blocking out the sunshine of joyful memories and future possibilities. I must say it’s oppressive, a constant reminder of what once was and what may never be again. There are times that I was in such agony, feeling as if I were carrying the weight of a thousand unasked questions, each one pressing down harder than the last, making it almost unbearable to navigate through daily life.
I don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I do see the Light of the world in my Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. He is the firm foundation upon which I build my life, and He provides stability in the stormy seas of my life. He is my Rock, unshakeable, unmovable, and steadfast, a source of strength when I feel weary and overwhelmed. He is my Comforter, gently embracing me in times of heartache and despair, reminding me that I am never alone. This trial has shown me how much I need Him to be my “center” in life, guiding my thoughts and actions as I meet each day’s complexities. In every moment of confusion and doubt, Christ has become my focal point in the midst of my day’s challenges, instilling hope in my heart. With His presence, I am learning to trust the process and embrace the journey, knowing that I am held in His loving arms. He has allowed me to go through this painful journey for a reason and therefore I trust Him for its outcome!
Psa 63:1 A Psalm of David, when he was in the wilderness of Judah. O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee: my soul thirsteth for thee, my flesh longeth for thee in a dry and thirsty land, where no water is;
Surviving each day with living grief is no easy task, and it often feels like driving through a dense fog of sorrow. My first thoughts in the morning are about my prodigal son, a reminder of the memories, now shadowed by reality. To show you how different we mothers are, I have a friend who had to remove her daughters’ pictures from her digital frame because it was too painful for her and her husband; the absence of those images became a shield against the raw ache of loss. In contrast, I have chosen to keep my son’s pictures on my digital frame not just as a way to remember him, but to help remind me to pray for him, despite the pain he has caused and the heartache I endure. I find it therapeutic—like a small ritual of remembrance, it helps me to let go of the hurt and replace it with the Kingdom of God in mind. Each image serves as a catalyst for prayer, encouraging me to envision a future filled with hope and restoration. I pray for his salvation and that the Holy Spirit would have His way with him, guiding him back to what he was taught as a child. This daily practice, though bittersweet, offers me strength and a way to keep my faith alive amid the turmoil.
Psalm 34:4 I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.
Psalm 34:8 O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.
Picture in your mind Satan standing behind you, whispering in your ear, telling you that your child had no right to do this to you. Picture him trying to make you dwell on the circumstances of your living grief so that you become embittered and discouraged, feeling as though you are trapped in an emotional maze with no escape. This is what the enemy is all about; he thrives on your pain and seeks to amplify your suffering, attempting to blind you to the love and support that still surrounds you. He wants to devour you and ruin your faith in Christ, dragging you into despair and isolation. But remember, because we are children of Almighty God, we can fight back with the following two verses! It works every time for me, providing a powerful reminder of God’s strength. Stop the enemy in his tracks and quote Scripture, allowing the truth of God’s promises to penetrate the darkness, shining on your path, helping you reclaim your joy and hope in the midst of this horrible trial.
1 John 4:4 Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world.
Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
The Word of God is powerful! Jesus quoted it to Satan when He was in the wilderness, revealing the strength that comes from Scripture. His example serves to help us learn to use the Scriptures as our sword against the same enemy! (Hebrews 4:12) In times of trials, we can draw upon these divine truths to strengthen our resolve and fortify our spirit. Be encouraged, dear reader! You are not alone in your battle! There are countless sisters in Christ who are dealing with this living grief revolving around their prodigals. They are experiencing heartache and seeking solace through prayer and fellowship just as you are. Together, we can support each other, share our testimonies, and remind one another of the hope that exists in God’s promises. With faith and perseverance, we will find strength to overcome and rejoice in the victories that lie ahead, thanks to the Lord’s intervention.
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The blame game is not anything new. It has been going on since the Garden of Eden and the fall of man! Adam blamed Eve, and Eve blamed the serpent. Adam went as far as saying that “The woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree.” I had never noticed this before, but do you see just a hint of blaming God there as well? I think we’ve all said it at one point or another: God, why have you done this to me? Sometimes our trials are due to our own actions, and sometimes they are allowed by God to mold us into His image. This tendency to shift blame has permeated human history, more so today than ever before.
I can’t tell you how many mothers I know who are living this nightmare! But what about when your child blames you for everything that has gone wrong in his life? It raises questions about the nature of responsibility and accountability. Children often search for a scapegoat when faced with challenges, and as parents, we may feel the weight of those accusations. Where is the fine line between blaming the parents and taking responsibility for their actions in their adult lives? This dynamic can create a cycle of resentment and avoidance, where lessons go unlearned and growth is stunted.
What about those children who stop talking to their parents altogether so there is no hope of open dialogue or resolution? That is what I’m living through right now: unanswered questions, and unending doubts. One thing I do know for certain is that the Lord has not abandoned me to go through this calamity alone. In fact, He is the best solution to my problems!
Psalm 57:1-3 To the chief Musician, Altaschith, Michtam of David, when he fled from Saul in the cave. Be merciful unto me, O God, be merciful unto me: for my soul trusteth in thee: yea, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge, until these calamities be overpast. (2) I will cry unto God most high; unto God that performeth all things for me. (3) He shall send from heaven, and save me from the reproach of him that would swallow me up. Selah. God shall send forth his mercy and his truth.
Granted, David was fleeing from Saul and hiding in a cave when he wrote this Psalm. However, the same deep fear and anxiety he experienced lies deeply in the mother’s heart. The challenges we mothers face in today’s evil world are some that have not been experienced by previous generations. We are living in the end times, and the hearts of men are growing desperately cold. There are so many parts of these three verses above that apply to us, aren’t there? Do you see yourself in them, feeling overwhelmed by the demands of parenting and daily life? As I steer through this troubling time, I battle the uncertainties and pressures that come with being a mother of an adult man. However, I find myself being strengthened in my spirit, drawing inspiration from David’s words. His struggles mirror our own as we seek to balance our roles; fear is gradually replaced with a sense of peace and assurance, reminding us that we are not alone and that we can find peace and comfort in the midst our trials.
What a wonderful God we serve! We can trust Him to change the heart of our child just as He did ours at our salvation, providing us with hope and understanding through His love and grace. We should not abandon our children even when a child turns against us; rather, we must approach them with compassion and patience, reflecting the forgiveness we received from the Father. Yes, we have to hold them accountable, just as Jesus held the woman at the well accountable. But we won’t find a resolution when both sides are bitter and angry.
My pain has softened in the past eighteen months, and I feel certain it is because of the healing hand of my Heavenly Father. Don’t get me wrong, the pain is still there but it does not sting as it used to. The Lord is guiding me through the trials and tribulations of parenthood and teaching me the importance of unwavering faith in His perfect plan. It’s important that your child sees that as well! As you surrender your worries and fears to Him, you will grow stronger in your own relationship, learning to cherish each moment and trust in the transforming power of God’s love.
Consider yourself blessed if your child still speaks to you, even after he has blamed you for everything. I am not a counsellor, but I do know that if my son still spoke to me, I would encourage us to have honest and open communication. As difficult as it would be, I would listen intently to his accusations, understanding the root of his anger and that his words are coming from the enemy. The enemy would receive no greater joy than to destroy your family. I encourage you to listen with merciful ears and a loving heart. Try not to be defensive, justifying why you did certain things as parents. Just listen. Then, if you are able, pray with your child asking the Lord to work in both your lives to accomplish His will. If your child is opposed to prayer and insists on his point being the final word, then it may be time to stop the one-sided conversation and let it rest until emotions are not so heated. The old adage, “Time heals all wounds” is not always true. But it can diffuse a volatile situation. Wait on God’s timing; the Holy Spirit will reveal it to you.
Psalm 27:14 Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.
Our world today is being bombarded by ungrateful children with negative attitudes, making it increasingly difficult for parents to deal with the challenges of parenting. Yes, as parents we’ve made mistakes, as all those parents before us, and we would love a “do-over,” but that’s not going to happen! Instead, we must learn from our experiences and strive to guide our children with greater wisdom and love. We cannot change the heart of an embittered child, but God can! It is in His hands that we find hope and healing, as we pray for understanding and compassion to seep into their hearts. Make no mistake, the Lord hears your cries.
Psalm 116:1-2 I love the LORD, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications. (2) Because he hath inclined his ear unto me, therefore will I call upon him as long as I live.
God’s Word is the only thing that makes permanent changes to the heart, not only in your child’s but in yours as well. We must not allow ourselves to become bitter over the venomous words our child has spoken, as such negativity can cloud our judgment and cause our hearts to be hardened. Instead, by immersing ourselves in Scripture and allowing its teachings to influence our lives, we can have a more loving and patient reaction that will ultimately bring healing and connection within our family.
I will share the verses below each day, so we remember Who is working behind the scenes and in our own lives. He loves you so glorify, bless and praise His Name:
Isaiah 25:1 O LORD, thou art my God; I will exalt thee, I will praise thy name; for thou hast done wonderful things; thy counsels of old are faithfulness and truth.
Psa 91:4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
Psalm 31:3 For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name’s sake lead me, and guide me.
Psalm 40:17 But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God.
Psalm 71:3 Be thou my strong habitation, whereunto I may continually resort: thou hast given commandment to save me; for thou art my rock and my fortress.
Colossians 3:2 Set your affection on things above, noton things on the earth.
Family dynamics can be so complicated at times. We hear of countless stories of family gatherings at Thanksgiving, where laughter and joy mingle with tension, and how countless topics must be avoided due to differences of opinion. The topic of religion is always one of those subjects that can ignite passionate debates, causing conflict among family members who hold contrasting beliefs. There once was a time when friendly debates could ensue without explosive displays of anger. However, today’s world has produced a bunch of angry people who are not afraid to speak their minds, omitting grace in their words. Often, individuals may feel compelled to suppress their true thoughts or opinions, choosing instead to focus on lighter subjects like football games or the culinary masterpieces served at the table, in the hope of keeping the peace and ensuring that the spirit of the holiday is not diminished.
But what about day-to-day relationships with our children? This is where the rubber meets the road, as it profoundly affects our lives and emotional wellbeing. I am going through this at the moment, struggling with complex dynamics. Our oldest son has abandoned our relationship altogether, leaving a significant void that weighs heavily on our family. Meanwhile, the relationship with our other son and his wife is strained, creating an atmosphere of discomfort that can’t be ignore. The two sons are close, a bond we deeply cherish, and we don’t want to interfere with that connection, as it’s crucial for their growth and support. However, when we do visit with our other son, we find ourselves in an awkward position; we can’t talk about his brother because our grandchildren are present, and we would never want them to hear negative words about their uncle. This creates an emotional barrier, limiting the conversations we long to have. We feel as though we are walking on eggshells when we do get together. It’s especially strained because our son agrees with portions of his brother’s complaints. It’s terrible when you cannot have adult conversations with your family without someone getting angry! It leaves us longing for open, honest dialogue, yet feeling constrained and worried that any attempt to express ourselves will only lead to further discord.
Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever.
We seem to have warmer conversations with brothers and sisters in Christ than we do with our own children, which is extremely sad and leaves us feeling quite isolated. What once seemed to be a family living in harmony has now become conflicting, filled with misunderstandings and a lack of connection. My husband and I are in our 70’s, a stage of life we had hoped would be filled with the joy of family gatherings and shared experiences. We never dreamed we would be living the last years of our lives without our children, longing for the laughter and love that once echoed in our home. It is a heavy burden to carry, seeing the distance grow and wishing for the days when we could all come together to create cherished memories. The absence of these moments has not only affected our spirits but has also made us reflect deeply on the importance of family ties and the love that should transcend any differences. Although the following verse speaks of parents forsaking their children, our situation is the opposite. However, I cling to the latter part of the verse:
Psalm 27:10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.
When there is no dialogue, there cannot be any healing, and this fact underscores the complications in relationships. That is the crux of the matter, highlighting the importance of open communication and understanding, which foster genuine connections. The only solution is to trust in the Lord to take care of this sticky problem, as faith can provide guidance and solace in times of uncertainty. It enables us to find strength even in our deepest distress. This allows us to navigate through our challenges with His grace producing resilience, teaching us that through every trial we encounter, there is an opportunity for growth and healing. Since we cannot initiate conversations with the prodigal son, we must strive to do so with our other son, in God’s timing of course, recognizing that patience is often a virtue that leads to change. I have learned to love the following verses as I wait on the Lord for His answers, holding onto His promises as a source of hope that reassures me in my journey. It reaffirms that every moment spent in prayer and reflection is a step toward deeper understanding and reconciliation.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. (6) In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Psalm 56:3 What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.
Isaiah 26:3 Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.
I wasn’t at first, but now I am thankful that the Lord has allowed me to go through this because He has taught me that this is one area that I cannot fix on my own. I must leave the details to Him and allow Him to work through each problem.
I will share the verses below each day, so we remember Who is working behind the scenes and in our own lives. He loves you so glorify, bless and praise His Name:
Isaiah 25:1 O LORD, thou art my God; I will exalt thee, I will praise thy name; for thou hast done wonderful things; thy counsels of old are faithfulness and truth.
Psa 91:4 He shall cover thee with his feathers, and under his wings shalt thou trust: his truth shall be thy shield and buckler.
Psalm 31:3 For thou art my rock and my fortress; therefore for thy name’s sake lead me, and guide me.
Psalm 40:17 But I am poor and needy; yet the Lord thinketh upon me: thou art my help and my deliverer; make no tarrying, O my God.
Psalm 71:3 Be thou my strong habitation, whereunto I may continually resort: thou hast given commandment to save me; for thou art my rock and my fortress.
Colossians 3:2 Set your affection on things above, noton things on the earth.
